dictation's Diaryland Diary ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- I can't think of a title for this...I'm speechless for the upteenth time In North America virtually all women who 'find themselves' in abusive situations are regarded as victims, even when it's clear their choices have placed them and their children in peril. The wack job who murdered his 9 children, two of whom he slept with? I don't wonder about him...don't give him a second thought. Whatever forces of evil created his psychopathy - it's likely he was horrifically abused as a kid - he's already outdone. In the perpetual chain of abuse and degradation, men and women - like him - raise men and women like him. This guy, like others before him, has reached the pinnacle of his career as a psychopath and it's highly unlikely he'll be able to do any more damage. He'll rot in jail until he either passes or is executed. I'm more interested in the people who have the capability, the ultimate power to stop the buck, end the cycle. The women who sleep with, sometimes marry, but regardless of the marriage certificate, bear children with such men. None of these women are ever held accountable for their decisions and their willful role as passive bystanders. What the fuck are they thinking? Rhetorical question. They are NOT thinking. They don't think. But what's astonishing is they don't want to think. Equality is a joke when a woman can still successfully claim to be overruled by her emotions and hormones. A joke. It's the lie that makes me incredulous. I still can't believe people buy into it. But they do, in spades. And feminists - still cemented in the naive and narrow-minded politics of the 70s - are the first to defend them. Everywhere there are women who rant of the agonies of being in love with crud like this latest perp, crud that has the potential to be explosive and dangerous. Crud beyond anyone's imagination. The crud inspires some wonder, but the women who bed them inspires more. They'll describe in amazing detail the perversities in their relationships and when you ask them why they don't leave, when you suggest it is crazy to stay, they get all huffy and teary and tell you you don't understand. If you persist and suggest they are making a choice to stay, they get downright pissed at you. It's astonishing how vehemently these so-called victims will defend what they also whine endlessly about. I realize some of the women come from abusive backgrounds. But they don't all, and let me tell you, I emerged scathed from a background of abuse and somehow I was still able to use my brain, still able to be discerning. And I am not special. I'm not educated. My IQ isn't off the charts. For years I thought I was stupid, got called stupid. But I was never stupid like this. This kind of stupid is an evil kind of stupid...it's not cute, it's not the kind of stupid one can defend or excuse. Abusive backgrounds be damned. Many women can't even claim that as an excuse and yet they'll still choose the losers. Over and over again. What's stunning is how apparently 'forgiving' such women are. Men who don't deserve squat, men who molest their kids, men who beat their kids, men who put thrones in the house and say 'worship me' are given more second chances than you can shake a stick at. The red flags are waving well in advance of any carnage, but the women in these households continue to put the relationship first. They willfully sacrifice the lives of their children but you won't find them ever taking responsibility for the choice. No, instead they indulge in pity parties and a wringing of hands. "I love him, I can't leave..." And the topper: "I'm helpless..." But watch them bare their teeth when you get in their face about it. It's mean to kick a woman's ass dontcha know. The pixellated tear drop on the romance comic book still holds: women don't dupe themselves, they are duped, had, taken advantage of. Bullshit. Without exception, such women regard themselves as helpless. Life happens to them. They claim they don't have a choice, when choice bends over backwards, makes them a better offer, when choice stares them in the face. Frankly, I'm done with their longings and conflict about putrid and unworthy attractions. The hair on the back of my neck goes up when I hear them use the word "love" to describe abusive and perverse relationships. When it's clear a lot of bad shit is going on and they can SEE it, I'm at a loss to be sympathetic. A woman who agonizes about "love" - that overused and misused word - while she sacrifices her kids deserves some hardline ass-kicking. If it were up to me, she'd do some jail time. Hell, if it were up to me, she'd have to give up her kids for adoption and not be allowed to have any. Men like this guy? All over the place. Everywhere. A dime a dozen. If women boycotted these fuckers they'd have no cults, no crown, no throne. They'd have no subjects, no religion. They wouldn't be molesting their own kids and making more babies with their own children. They wouldn't have children, period. They'd be banished. These men, in short, wouldn't have opportunity. It takes a woman to give them opportunity. These men REQUIRE women to fulfill their plans. There's a trial on in Toronto. A man tortured and killed and cut up his 5 year old daughter. His wife claims she 'didn't help.' So far she's only an accessory - because she helped him put the child's limbs in garbage bags. She's milking the victim defense for all it's worth. The crown has rightly charged her in the first degree. Indeed, it's coming out that on the child's last day this woman helped the crud she "loved" chase the kid around the living room with a rolling pin. The woman assisted in battering her. Sat and watched the events get out of hand. Helped bury the evidence. But you watch. She'll get off with some plea bargain because she's got a vagina and breasts. She's just another helpless little thang, after all. So yeah, I wonder about those two women who called the cops because "suddenly" they "wanted their babies back." Babies they GAVE to this guy. Babies they should never have made. I wonder about the women who gave this fucker daughters to molest. Who didn't do squat to rescue them. They'll move on, make more babies. There's nothing to stop them. 11:12 a.m. - 2004-03-14 ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- |
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